How to Say "No Kids at Our Wedding" (Without Ruffling Feathers)

Planning a kid-free wedding? You’re not alone - and you’re not being rude. Whether it’s due to venue size, budget, or the type of day you envision, many couples opt for an adults-only celebration. The tricky part? Finding the right words. In this post, I’ll walk you through how to word your “no children” request with grace and clarity so that you don’t feel rude and so that you don’t ruffle any feathers! Plus I’ll share three ready-to-copy snippets in different tones: short and sweet, fun and playful, and heartfelt.

Let’s face it, this one’s tricky. You love your friends’ kids, your cousins’ adorable toddlers, and those squishy baby cheeks. But for your wedding day, you’re dreaming of an adults-only celebration… and that’s okay. Whether it’s due to budget, venue limitations, or simply the vibe you have been envisioning, you’re completely within your right to set this boundary.

Here’s how to say it with kindness and clarity:

Grab-and-Go Snippets:

• Short & Precise:
  "We kindly request an adults-only celebration."

• Fun & Playful:
  "Dress up, relax, and enjoy a night off—this celebration is just for grown-ups!"

• Heartfelt:
  "While we adore your little ones, we hope you’ll enjoy this evening as a chance to unwind and celebrate with us, adults-only."

Where to put it:
This line works well on your wedding website, or discreetly on the Details card. Avoid putting “No kids” directly on the main invitation - if you’ve searched for this blog post, then likely you’re looking for a softer touch.